DuncanKig I have seen something similar in another thread. You might find certain parts of that post helpful, not everything of course, but I think it's worth checking out.
<a href=http://minervashummus.com/2017/12/05/why-im-accomplished-asking-my-husband-to-help-me-3/>http://minervashummus.com/2017/12/05/why-im-accomplished-asking-my-husband-to-help-me-3/</a>